Moving out of state for college can feel like a big leap, but for Zoe Miller from Whitefish Bay, Wisconsin, choosing KU was the perfect balance of independence and community. 

When Zoe first considered colleges, she didn’t know much about KU. Growing up just outside Milwaukee, the school wasn’t on her high school’s radar, and she hadn’t expected the deep connections she would build once she arrived. From academics to athletics to the vibrant campus community, KU offered more than she anticipated.

For out-of-state students like Zoe, distance can be both a challenge and an opportunity. She reflects on what drew her to KU, how she stays connected to friends and family back home, and the ways the university has helped her grow into a confident, independent student. 

Coming to KU from out of state or from a far corner of Kansas? Read our No Place Like KU series to see how students from all over found their place here.

Q: Can you introduce yourself, your hometown, and your major?

A: I’m Zoe Miller from Whitefish Bay, Wisconsin, about ten minutes outside of Milwaukee. I’m currently pre-nursing and applying to the KU School of Nursing. My goal is to become a pediatric oncology nurse, eventually a nurse practitioner.

Q: Before coming to KU, what did you know about the university?

A: I wouldn’t have known about KU if an upperclassman from my high school hadn’t reached out to me. I’ve been surprised by how connected KU is to Kansas City for internships and volunteer opportunities, especially in healthcare. I also didn’t realize that study abroad programs are charged at in-state rates, which is a big plus for out-of-state students like me.

Q: What drew you to Lawrence and KU in particular?

A: I liked the college town feel. Mass Street reminded me of my hometown, with a main road full of shops and restaurants. Joining a sorority also helped me get involved and feel connected to the school in ways I wouldn’t have otherwise. The combination of a big campus, close-knit community, and opportunities in nearby Kansas City really clicked for me.

Q: What’s been your favorite part of campus life so far?

A: Definitely the sports. Everyone should experience a basketball and a football game at KU — the energy in the stadiums is incredible. The DeBruce Center is a favorite spot too; it’s great for studying and grabbing food. Spending time with friends at my sorority house also makes campus feel like home.

Q: Speaking of feeling at home, what has made KU feel like yours?

A: It’s the people. I didn’t know anyone at first, but KU makes it easy to meet others. Whether you’re into sports, music, or anything else, there’s a circle for you. Like they say, home isn’t a place. It’s the people who make the place special.

Q: If you had to describe KU in three words, what would they be?

A: Community, lively, and a hidden gem. There’s a strong sense of community — even back home, I love that people recognize us. The campus is lively, spirited, and passionate. And for someone from out of state, KU feels like a hidden gem in the heart of Kansas.

Q: How far is it from home, and how do you usually travel?

A: I’ve flown and driven. Flights range from about 1.5 to 4 hours depending on connections. Driving takes about nine hours with stops, but it’s easier than going through Chicago. I’ve carpooled with friends from home, and others from Minnesota do the same. It makes the trips back home more manageable and fun.

Q: What are some of your favorite spots in Lawrence?

A: 151 Coffee! Their dirty sodas are amazing and something we don’t have in Wisconsin. Sylas & Maddy’s is another favorite for ice cream. And anything on Mass Street is great! I still have more restaurants and boutiques to explore after a year here.

Q: What made KU the right fit compared to other schools?

A: I applied to Wisconsin, Minnesota, Nebraska, Kansas, and some smaller schools in Wisconsin. Ultimately, it came down to Kansas or Minnesota. I wanted a sense of independence, and to go out of state while still being able to come home if needed. I realized a big city school wasn’t for me; I liked KU’s college-town feel and the setup of the campus.

Q: How have you gotten involved outside the classroom?

A: I’m in my sorority and the pre-nursing club. I also attend fitness classes at the Rec Center with friends. Sorority and Fraternity Life, in particular, has been great for forming friendships and learning skills. Living in the dorms my first year also helped me meet people. Organizing floor events and movie nights made it easier to connect!

Q: How has KU shaped you personally?

A: I’d definitely say confidence and independence. Before freshman year, I wasn’t comfortable talking to adults or participating in interviews. KU gave me opportunities to push past my comfort zone, meet professors, and build relationships. Living out of state forced me to make plans, meet people, and find my place. I feel ready for life in my own apartment next year.

Q: Is there a moment from your freshman year when you truly felt like a Jayhawk?

A: At a basketball game, I was wearing my game-day bibs and my pins, cheering with everyone. When you're in Allen fieldhouse or at the stadium, there's just a whole energy, and especially after camping out for your seats. You’re so invested, and now that I finally know the fight song claps, even more so!  

Q: Any advice for future students from your home state who might be considering KU? 

A: You will find your people here. It may take time so you have to be patient, but you will find your people. Just come here, be yourself, and be open to meet everyone. Don't close anyone off, don't close any doors, be open to meet and talk and get to know everyone. Everyone’s new, and everyone’s just as nervous as you are! 

Everyone is so concerned about themselves and how they are presenting themselves, but no one is watching you as closely as watch yourself. You are your harshest critic, and I think confidence is the biggest thing!